The Affair

[krw627]

I voted EJ, only because he was in a relationship. They were both at fault, yes; but he made a promise to Sami!

 

[Just Samantha]

Off topic, but krw627, I just realized that your profile picture is Alison Sweeney (Sami). I thought it was a picture of you!

 

[sway]

I voted both since it takes two of them to have an affair.

 

[krw627]

Just Samantha--I wish it was a picture of me! Would love to look like her!

 

[meldrel]

I voted both - they were both consenting each time.
Once it was over at least Abigail had remorse but Elvis just didn't want to get caught....this is just my opinion though.

 

[JasonDíSpeech]

Off topic, but krw627, I just realized that your profile picture is Alison Sweeney (Sami). I thought it was a picture of you!

Whoa, mind = blown. I was of the same thought.:back:

 

[sirramix]

Both equally.

 

[jgk]

I would have voted for EJ to be more responsible, seeing as he is definitely the older (supposedly more mature) one who is supposed to be in a committed relationship, and who was just trying to get Abby to not be as involved in the Nick/Gabi situation. That said, there is a great big IF here. That IF, is if Abby hadn't already tried to have an affair with another committed man, remember Austin??? Therefore, I think both are responsible.

 

[KathyLu]

Austin or not, I think Abigail is just as much at fault for their romps as EJ is. I keep thinking of how Bugs Bunny and Red Skelton used to say, "If I do it, I'll get a whippin'. I'll do it!"

 

[Jazz Cat]

Remember Abby setting Austin up to make him believe they slept together? She wanted that reality so intensely. At the time and how it was written and acted really put a stamp on Abby's character, for me. So, in this case, up at the cabin, initially, I saw it as Abby's "inner siren" making an appearance. She was fairly aggressive. But once EJ took the bait, they both were equally ... attracted.

At any rate, Abby has a strong "inner sex kitten" thing going on.

 

[krw627]

OK, for those that thought my avatar was of me...now it is. I really wish I was as beautiful as Alison Sweeney (Sami).

 

[Just Samantha]

But you are!!

 

[krw627]

Thanks JustSamantha! :back:At least Abby is starting to accept responsibility and wants to tell people she loves before everyone finds out from Sami. Love this Sami getting revenge! Hate that Abby got caught in Sami's circle of wrath. Abby isn't blame-free, but I would hate to be in Sami's crosshairs!!

 

[gramcracker]

I voted equally. But it looks like Abby is going to go around with a big scarlet A around her neck. And I fear EJ is going to wish he had said Abby Who?

 

[lonewriter]

Where does Adrienne get off calling Sami anything? Abigail is the one who cheated. I get so sick of Adrienne.

 

[meldrel]

If Adrienne said that Samantha is a hypocrite I would agree with her 100%

 

[Poirot]

As was said to Rafe.....First Sami cheated on you with EJ, and then EJ cheated on Sami. So Sami IS a hypocrit. Abigail is a single woman, and at the time, EJ was a single man. Yes, engaged, but single.
But Sami was a married woman, and EJ a married man when their romp occurred.

 

[SnowFox]

And Rafe has now cheated on Jordan. A bunch of wrongs, don't make anyone right. EJ cheated, and I hope Sami never forgives him for so many more reasons than just the cheating.

 

[Daysdegrassi]

Lonewriter-while what Abby did was wrong, she was not the one who cheated, as she didn't have a boyfriend at the time. EJ is the only one who cheated.

 

[SarahBeth]

No Abby didn't cheat. Abby had an outright affair with a man who was engaged and was sharing a home with his fiancee and their children, which makes her a homewrecker.

Homewreckers are every bit as wrong as the engaged man sharing a home with fiancee and children. Whoop-dee-do, Abby didn't cheat, she was the other woman, which is every bit as bad.

edited to enlarge font....JS