I agree with this. I always thought she needed to be a bit more like Maggie. I would like Xander to bend some too though. At some point he should snap out of it and realize she's right and that he could end up in jail and leave his wife and kid. And honestly I think it's because his inability to drop it makes him seem a little dumb. I don't think his initial reaction is unusual but dragging it out will be too much.I really like Sarah's choice here. I always thought for this relationship to survive she had to become more gray
I hate the Chanel/Alex/whoever stuff. No couple can just be happy at all. Angst just for the sake of it is lazy and boring.