I would like each of you to think about this PERSONALLY. Not Jen, Eve, JJ, Paige. But YOU personally.
Your 19-20 yr. old son is dating a girl who he cares about a great deal. Suddenly, HE breaks it off, no explanation, but he is withdrawn unhappy, etc. And then you find out he has been having sex, multiple times with the girl's mother.
YOUR daughter is dating a young fellow, who had been in trouble with the law when he was younger, but has really cleaned up his act. You feel that this relationship is detrimental to your daughter, preventing her from reaching her potential, and thus want to put a stop to it. However, you find both you and the young fellow have a mutual interest, something that is dear to both of you, and your attitude towards him softens.
You are determined to project a negative image of this young fellow to your daughter to force a breakup.
And despite you best intentions, find yourself somehow attracted to the young fellow.
So.......what do you do...each scenario.
Your 19-20 yr. old son is dating a girl who he cares about a great deal. Suddenly, HE breaks it off, no explanation, but he is withdrawn unhappy, etc. And then you find out he has been having sex, multiple times with the girl's mother.
YOUR daughter is dating a young fellow, who had been in trouble with the law when he was younger, but has really cleaned up his act. You feel that this relationship is detrimental to your daughter, preventing her from reaching her potential, and thus want to put a stop to it. However, you find both you and the young fellow have a mutual interest, something that is dear to both of you, and your attitude towards him softens.
You are determined to project a negative image of this young fellow to your daughter to force a breakup.
And despite you best intentions, find yourself somehow attracted to the young fellow.
So.......what do you do...each scenario.